Good Bye, Kramer

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Kramer

Two weeks ago, photographer and friend, Sabrina Helas, lost her dog Kramer to inoperable cancer. When I heard the news I was heartsick and had no idea what to say, since two weeks before that I had tried to reassure her that veterinary medicine can do miracles these days. Try not to worry. This was when the tests were still being done. But the cancer had spread and she lost her sweet boy.

I still don't know what to say, because I don't think words will help right now. But, I wanted to tell you, Sabrina, that I think about the story you told me of how Kramer came into your life, how you were a frantic film crew girl in NYC when you were struck, light a lightning bolt, with the notion that you HAD to get a dog. Immediately. Somehow, you had the courage to follow your instincts, go directly to the nearest shelter (which was not very near at all), and meet your destiny in Kramer.

Through him, you moved to LA, became a pet and children's photographer, and found your fiance. I know nothing can replace your love for Kramer. But I hope that you will someday be able to find comfort in the gift that he gave you, your new life, and know that his legacy lives on in all the lives that you touch through your amazing photos and generous spirit.

With deepest sympathies,

Moira

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9 responses to “Good Bye, Kramer”

February 20, 2009

ElizabethE

my condolences to your friend — so sad

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February 20, 2009

sabrina

Moira,
I am touched beyond belief. Your kindness has moved both me and my fiance to tears (good ones tho) Thank you for this memorial, it is truly beautiful.
much love,
sabrina

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February 20, 2009

Linda O’Neill

Wow, what a beautiful post, Moira and what a beautiful dog.
My heart goes out to you, Sabrina. Sending a big hug your way.

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February 20, 2009

Buffy Nicolas

Sabrina,
Moira and her website inspire me.
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your family pet.
Anyone who is lucky enough to be “owned’ by a dog, knows that the unconditional love is a gift for a period of time.
It hurts, a lot, and I am sorry.
Buffy and her Portuguese Water Dog, Willy

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February 21, 2009

susan and todd

heartbreaking
Sabrina is a dear friend of ours and has taken beautiful photos of our dogs and cat
we are so moved and so sorry for her loss. Kramer was such a good and sweet boy and friend to our boxers as well…
he will be missed

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February 22, 2009

manon doyle

I feel for your friend! My Bernese Mountain dog , PowWow, died three years ago of cancer! I still think of him everyday! It’s so hard to lose a furry loved one!

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February 22, 2009

Aliyah, Joseph, Marie & Keith

What a beautiful picture of Kramer. We will always remember him. Again, Sabrina we are all so sad and sorry. Aliyah, Joseph, Marie & Keith

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February 23, 2009

Grace

Oh Moira this was a beautiful, moving post. Sabrina, I am so so sorry for your loss. Kramer was beautiful.

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February 26, 2009

Leesia

sabrina, i’m so sorry for your loss. it’s wonderful you have such a beautiful image of kramer to remember him by…my thoughts are with you.

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