Rest in Peace Sweet Boy

 

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Darby McLaughlin, November 20,1994 – December 3, 2011

 

Darby passed away at home on Saturday morning.  He was my muse, partner, child, mentor, guru, peanut gallery, and thread of joy in every moment of my life for the past 17 years.   I am so grateful he was mine.  Rest in peace, sweet boy.

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29 responses to “Rest in Peace Sweet Boy”

  1. leigh Avatar

    I am so sad about Darby’s passing. Why do they have to leave us? My heart is with you.

  2. Moira McLaughlin Avatar

    Thank you, Leigh. In the end he went quick. But it is devastating and shocking even so. I am crushed.

  3. leigh Avatar

    Moira, it is devastating,crushing & so painful, yet so worth the pain.

  4. sabrina Avatar

    Sweet Moira,
    I know how much Darby meant to you and I also know how hard it is to lose such a love.
    My heart breaks for you.
    I wish you much love and healing with all my heart.
    If you need to talk, I am here.

  5. Elizabeth Avatar

    I am quietly weeping here, typing this. I’m so sorry Moira — can only imagine your grief and loss. You so beautifully shared your Darby with everyone — I am just so sorry for your loss.

  6. superheidi Avatar

    oooh dear, I’m so sorry for you.

  7. superheidi Avatar

    Your calendar will be extra special, you both made it till the last month.

  8. Mike and Susan Avatar
    Mike and Susan

    Dear Moira,
    What sad, sad news…. heartbreaking. Darby is a lucky little soul to have your endless love.
    Peace,
    Mike and Susan

  9. anickluvsdogs Avatar
    anickluvsdogs

    I’m so sorry Moira. My heart goes out to you.
    anick

  10. J.D. Fields Avatar

    What can I say that everone else has not siad, Moira my heart gose out to you and the lost of your furry friend.
    Hugs to you
    J.D. Fields

  11. ann marie Avatar
    ann marie

    I just found your blog now. So sorry this is the first post I am reading.. 17 years. I can only imagine that he came to you as a puppy. So lucky he was to know only love and kindness his entire life. I only wish they all could be as lucky as he obviously was. When I lost my first old girl (after fostering rescues with sad stories for many years) I could only take comfort in knowing that no one had ever raised a hand to her, left her in the cold, or let her go unfed her entire life. It is little comfort but better than none at all…

  12. Jane Avatar

    Oh Moira, I am so so sorry. I can see how much love you had for each other. I feel like I got to know Darby through your postings and photos of him. What a sweetheart, and such a loving mom. My heart is definitely with you.

  13. Meagen Wilson Avatar
    Meagen Wilson

    I audibly gasped when I saw your post, Darby has been such a mainstay. Seventeen years is an amazing life, though it is never long enough. I share your tears, Moira, wishing you comfort and peace. Run with the wind sweet Darby!

  14. Heidi Avatar
    Heidi

    Peace and love to you Moira. Joy will come again with the rich memories you have, it just takes time.

  15. Nancy in NC Avatar
    Nancy in NC

    Moira, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how cold and empty a house feels without the presence of a beloved pet. No matter their stature, our dogs leave huge holes in our hearts when they’re gone. Wishing peace to both you and Darby.

  16. Valerie Avatar
    Valerie

    Much love to you from the Lou.

  17. patti Avatar

    I am so sorry. Why can’t they live as long as we do? I feel your pain. Deepest condolences.

  18. Blue Avatar

    Oh, I am so sorry to hear about Darby. Even when you know they lived a full and happy life, it doesn’t make it any easier. I am sure he knew just how very much he was loved.

  19. Steven Avatar

    If dogs weren’t so special, it wouldn’t hurt so much to lose them. Your sadness is a testament to Darby’s greatness.

  20. Jim Quinlivan Avatar
    Jim Quinlivan

    Because I’ve been reading Dog Art Today for years, I feel like I knew Darby…like one of my favorites around the neighborhood or at the dog parks. My deepest sympathy for your loss, Moira.

  21. Melissa Avatar

    Moira, I’m so, so sorry. Big hugs & my deepest condolences…

  22. Moira McLaughlin Avatar

    Thank you, Jim. I really appreciate you reaching out.
    Moira

  23. Moira McLaughlin Avatar

    Thank you, Mike and Susan. I am devastated. I might need to come down for some Roxy hugs this week.
    Moira

  24. Moira McLaughlin Avatar

    Heidi — Its so true. The whole idea started so I would always have him with me. Through every season. I got behind. But he made it until the end. He was amazing. Thanks for reaching out. It really helps to connect with people, dog lovers like you.
    Moira

  25. superheidi Avatar

    As you started the calendar it reminded me so much of my last months with my own dearest dog Tobi and making him subject of my drawings.
    And now your grief reminds me of losing that special dog. It hurts, even if they make it till 17. But next to the missing are many fond memories and pictures on the wall. And a wonderful blog to follow.

  26. Stephanie in NC Avatar
    Stephanie in NC

    there aren’t enough words for the kind of love he gave and the kind of loss it is. thank you for cherishing him the best way you knew how – with all of your heart, every day for 17 years. thinking of you and wishing you deepest condolences.

  27. Sue Avatar

    I’m so very sorry to read about your sweet Darby. I’ve been thru it too many times and it never gets any easier. Now with three old dogs, each having problems of one sort or another, I can imagine how you feel and I wish there was something I could say to help, but I know there are no right words.
    Sue

  28. Eurodog Avatar

    I am so sorry, Moira.
    I had to say goodbye to Belle last year. Eventhough I now have Ozzy, I still think of her every day.
    Be strong.

  29. Moira McLaughlin Avatar

    Hi Michèle — I am so sorry to hear of Belles passing. I know you had a deep connection and she was a driving force behind Eurodog
    and your advocacy on behalf of all dogs. I love hearing of new, special dogs finding a place in peoples hearts. So many have tried to
    describe what will happen, that you will always be sad, but you will find dog love again. I am open, and grieving. I hope you are healing.
    I would love to keep in touch as your blog is always interesting. I find myself connecting with others through Facebook. It there a Eurodog FB page? Here is the Dog Art Today one: http://www.facebook.com/dogarttoday
    Best regards,
    Moira

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